Does a bad match ruin your self-confidence?
Does a poor performance affect your ability to play well in future matches?
Can you think of a time when you were dominated in a tennis match? You may have started thinking, “I’m horrible at tennis… Maybe I should quit.”
At your next practice, you don’t play with as much vigor…
Your preparation is less than adequate for your next match and… you lose again.
Self-confidence is not the belief that you will always succeed and confidence doesn’t ensure that you will win every match…
Confidence is a belief in your ability to perform well.
Confidence allows you to quickly get over losses… Just because you lost doesn’t mean you no longer have the ability to play tennis at a high level.
Confidence affords you the chance to succeed at the next tournament.
By not dwelling on negative, you worry less about the losing (the fear of failing).
With confidence, you can focus on your strengths and the upcoming match and increase the enjoyment of the activity and future successes.
Serena Williams, ranked No. 1, suffered one of her worst Grand Slam losses (6-2, 6-2) in the second round at the 2014 French Open.
Garbine Muguruza, ranked No. 35, dominated every aspect of the match.
Serena was broken in five of eight games and had 29 unforced errors with only eight winners.
In the post-match interview, Serena stated, “It was one of those days.”
In 2012, Serena lost in the first round of the French Open, maintained her confidence and looked for a way to bounce back.
Serena enlisted the assistance of French coach Patrick Mouratoglou and quickly rebounded from her French Open setback by winning Wimbledon, the U.S. Open and two gold medals at the London Olympics.
Serena went 78-4 with 11 titles, including at the 2013 French Open and 2013 U.S. Open.
Mouratoglou stated Serena reacts positively to adversity:
“She’s definitely the kind of person that, when something bad happens to her, is always able to react. It’s really something that she has in herself. When she has a bad loss or she’s really down… it’s also a source of motivation for her to come back even stronger.”
In her post-match interview, Serena displayed the confidence of a champion despite the lopsided loss:
“I’m going to go home and work five times as hard to make sure I never lose again.”
It’s Serena’s confidence that allows her to maintain a positive perspective and bounce back from adversity:
“It’s great sometimes… to get knocked down, because you have to get back up. I love getting back up. I love the challenge.”
Try these tips to maintain your confidence after a poor match:
- Keep the tennis match in perspective. Everyone has a bad match. Like Serena said, “It’s one of those days.”
- Learn from the match. Take time to objectively review your match. What can you work on to improve your game? How can this lose help you grow and improve?
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